tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post3059825387359532059..comments2023-10-16T06:32:01.349-07:00Comments on Life induces thoughts,: Living With ITBeautiful Messhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-45623575169889829242009-05-01T09:02:00.000-07:002009-05-01T09:02:00.000-07:00Oh honey, my heart is hurting for you. I wish I kn...Oh honey, my heart is hurting for you. I wish I knew what to say to make the pain go away because your heart doesn't deserve to hurt this much. <br /><br />I do however believe that your Mom is watching of you and your beautiful family. She's so proud of you and the person you've become. You reach out to those people who are in need and offer your support up when your own heart is hurting. <br /><br />You are a wonderful, amazing woman and your mom sounds like she was too. I'm so sorry she's gone and I'm so sorry that your beautiful children wont get to know their wonderful Grandma - but she'll always live on inside of you. <br /><br />All my love, <br />♥<br />TWe have Angel Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14492464889416475299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-24753078360890226002009-05-01T07:12:00.000-07:002009-05-01T07:12:00.000-07:00I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. I can't say ...I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. I can't say that I know what it's like to lose a mother, but I do know what it's like to lose a father, grandparents, a good friend, and most recently my younger brother. Your feelings are totally normal, or at least quite similar to mine. <br /><br />It seems like you have good support from your husband and friends, which is so important. It sucks, and it's not fair. I wish you didn't have to go through it.Emmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02378761861553074475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-43916106774144095632009-04-30T13:52:00.000-07:002009-04-30T13:52:00.000-07:00What a lovely tribute to your mother! SOOO sorry ...What a lovely tribute to your mother! SOOO sorry you're hurting so much. HUGS!Alanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07890079014330244123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-26170050093309816742009-04-28T08:08:00.000-07:002009-04-28T08:08:00.000-07:00I wish I had just the perfect words of wisdom for ...I wish I had just the perfect words of wisdom for you...however the best I can do is send you a HUGE Virtual hug!!<br /><br />Please know I am with you whether you are sad, angry, happy or bored!!<br /><br />HUGSJB - A.K.A. Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06552394214853924040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-28837242174506396832009-04-28T05:40:00.000-07:002009-04-28T05:40:00.000-07:00hugshugsStacey Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11925284727494784182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-22091290565152554002009-04-27T23:58:00.000-07:002009-04-27T23:58:00.000-07:00all i can say is - those best buy commercials are ...all i can say is - those best buy commercials are really kicking my ass this year.<br /><br />xoxo<br />~jJDhttp://www.densfordfamily.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-40420343116295362692009-04-27T19:57:00.000-07:002009-04-27T19:57:00.000-07:00Sobbing. So well put, my dear. I had one of those...Sobbing. So well put, my dear. I had one of those moments yesterday too...as we approach the one year loss of our first little one. <br /><br />Sending you HUGE hugs and lotsa lovin' as you embrace the grief and let its healing wash over you.Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06833561106262245914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-38465603939528830932009-04-27T18:08:00.000-07:002009-04-27T18:08:00.000-07:00So sorry this is hurting so bad right now. Mel is ...So sorry this is hurting so bad right now. Mel is right. You're articulating this very, very well.<br /><br />I love WiseGuy's comment. I hope I can make my father "real for my child the way her mother made her grandparents real to her.Dorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255190971670471758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-32034762195759550642009-04-27T17:31:00.000-07:002009-04-27T17:31:00.000-07:00This is an amazing post--very raw and real. You t...This is an amazing post--very raw and real. You took me right inside your life. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I'm so very sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-10598520493389935752009-04-27T17:17:00.000-07:002009-04-27T17:17:00.000-07:00I just now read this post and your post from Satur...I just now read this post and your post from Saturday. I am so sorry for what you are going through - your grief is almost palpable.<br /><br />There are so many things that are not fair - one of them being the stupid Best Buy commercials that come out of no where and ruin the whole day when you didn't see it coming.<br /><br />Sending you lots of love and hugs . . .Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11509124764568535676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-90009628846257382012009-04-27T14:19:00.000-07:002009-04-27T14:19:00.000-07:00I know what you mean.
My grandfather (who raised ...I know what you mean.<br /><br />My grandfather (who raised me) died when I was 20. It's been almost 13 years and the pain never goes away. I was talking with a friend of mine about it and it's more like.....you never fill that hole in your heart, you never heal, you just learn to live around the pain. <br /><br />I guess the solace is that those cold water to the face days come less frequently over time. <br /><br />*hug*<br /><br /><br />(came over from ICLW, have been seeing you comment around.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-73425160707888272852009-04-27T12:09:00.000-07:002009-04-27T12:09:00.000-07:00Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. I'm ridiculously familia...Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. I'm ridiculously familiar with grief and how it can rear it's ugly head whenever and wherever.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-15414338392977411842009-04-27T11:35:00.000-07:002009-04-27T11:35:00.000-07:00Email me if you need to talk tonight. I will be a...Email me if you need to talk tonight. I will be at work and up all night. It reallys sucks to have something missing from this holiday doesn't it.Third times a charmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10411724104092998803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-31127686161796793732009-04-27T10:59:00.000-07:002009-04-27T10:59:00.000-07:00So sorry things have been hitting you again. The c...So sorry things have been hitting you again. The cycle of grief can be so hard--come up for air and have a little relief and then get hit again! :( Hugs to you!Muser Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03619098935024377476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-33753440196939618792009-04-27T10:31:00.000-07:002009-04-27T10:31:00.000-07:00You write: "I know I'm not articulating this well ...You write: "I know I'm not articulating this well at all, but it doesn't seem real sometimes." But I think you articulated it perfectly because you placed me in that spot of irreality. I am so sorry, sweetie.Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-15293329221593661122009-04-27T10:28:00.000-07:002009-04-27T10:28:00.000-07:00I am sorry you are hurting so much more right now....I am sorry you are hurting so much more right now.Celiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681663732376253772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-8171879885904409812009-04-27T09:25:00.000-07:002009-04-27T09:25:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. My dad died...I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. My dad died when I was 26 (4 yeras ago), and I have a lot of the same feelings. Sometimes I dream about him and I wake up and have to remember that he's gone. I'm sorry he won't get to see any grandchildren I might ever give him, and I'm sorry that my mom will spend her last years alone. But mostly I'm sorry for him, that his life didn't turn out the way he expected, I'm sure.sunflowerchildehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15209334933886664383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-42245040118439569662009-04-27T07:33:00.000-07:002009-04-27T07:33:00.000-07:00Checking in, sorry you are in so much pain! I don...Checking in, sorry you are in so much pain! I don't know what to say to make you feel better, just know that I am here if you need me-SShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02853957801933638507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-66807745085973822492009-04-27T04:09:00.000-07:002009-04-27T04:09:00.000-07:00Truly, one of the reasons (only one of course sinc...Truly, one of the reasons (only one of course since there were many) that I was so frustrated that it took us so long to get pregnant with Peanut is because I really wanted my mom to be able to see her first grandchild. My mom was incredibly patient - never once asked me when we'd have kids. She waited 34 years for her first grandkid and I'm so glad that they've had this time together. I see what you mean about that special relationship.Coffeegrljapanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04848101070810301786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-12769911477012769372009-04-27T03:37:00.000-07:002009-04-27T03:37:00.000-07:00Oh honey...huge, huge {{{hugs}}}. I am so very so...Oh honey...huge, huge {{{hugs}}}. I am so very sorry she isn't still here.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-20161620998930872732009-04-27T00:34:00.000-07:002009-04-27T00:34:00.000-07:00I'm currently where you are hon.
My Dad died the ...I'm currently where you are hon.<br /><br />My Dad died the night of my birthday last year, my 29th birthday. He was only 63 and died after a very short battle with Cancer of the Spine and Lungs.<br /><br />I get angry that he won't be here to see me hit 30, that he and my Mum won't have a wonderful retirement together, that if I do have children, he will never see them - he so wanted to be a grandparent.<br /><br />It's coming up to his first anniversary in June and only now am I starting to really deal with his death and even then it's coming in dribs and drabs.<br /><br />And so honey, you're not alone in feeling what you do, I'm right there with you....<br /><br />xxxxxan insight into mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08365625596614780273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-52794417268108916362009-04-27T00:03:00.000-07:002009-04-27T00:03:00.000-07:00I wish I could protect you from all the things tha...I wish I could protect you from all the things that do this to you.<br />I just hate that you're in so much pain and there isn't a damn thing I can do about it. I want to fix it for you and see you smile again but I can't and it pisses me off. I wish we didn't have to lose loved ones at all. <br /><br />I haven't been where you are but I will always be here for you. To listen, to love, and hopefully to comfort you.<br /><br />I still say we need to burn that motha down, pookie.GeekByMarriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05852460217362049044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-5781940511892271382009-04-27T00:02:00.000-07:002009-04-27T00:02:00.000-07:00I think what you talk about your child not knowing...I think what you talk about your child not knowing enough of your mother is possibly what my mother must have gone through. I lost my maternal grandparents several months before I landed on earth. But the way they have been described to me, it is as if I have spent summers with them as well.<br /><br />I have pride in my grandparents...I spontaneously attach objects to what my grandmother or grandfather would have liked or disliked. for e.g., now that I have made a career in education, I think my grandpa would have been so proud of it, since he himself was an educationist.<br /><br />My mother misses her mother, but she has made sure that I know what a great lady my grandma was....<br /><br /><br />Hugs......alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679149270839974470noreply@blogger.com