tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post5137566243371851273..comments2023-10-16T06:32:01.349-07:00Comments on Life induces thoughts,: This is Getting Redicilous!Beautiful Messhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-21907168443194311192009-04-03T13:11:00.000-07:002009-04-03T13:11:00.000-07:00Oh, sweetie. I can't express the sadness I have w...Oh, sweetie. I can't express the sadness I have when I think of all you have gone through. But I know, no matter how many times you have been told, you need to find out and understand for yourself. IT WASN'T YOU. It never was.<BR/><BR/>You and your family are your priority. Screw the rest of them! <BR/><BR/>I am so glad you have had this breakthrough. Doing the happy dance for you!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11509124764568535676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-75036303906718383612009-04-02T19:51:00.000-07:002009-04-02T19:51:00.000-07:00What an ass! I'm so glad you're experiencing some ...What an ass! I'm so glad you're experiencing some freedom. You're courageous and lovely!Muser Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03619098935024377476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-16413058648459892872009-04-02T11:58:00.000-07:002009-04-02T11:58:00.000-07:00I am so proud of you for opening up to your dad. A...I am so proud of you for opening up to your dad. And what a jerk that uncle asshole could have done this to not only you, but others as well!! I understand you not wanting your own kids around him - that's just being a safe and concerned parent!KimboSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08574989834621656426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-58447396304656876322009-04-02T10:48:00.000-07:002009-04-02T10:48:00.000-07:00One of the biggest, hardest things to do in this w...One of the biggest, hardest things to do in this world is not only to know the truth but to live with it openly. I'm really happy for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-66334292075904062792009-04-02T09:28:00.000-07:002009-04-02T09:28:00.000-07:00You are right to keep your children away from them...You are right to keep your children away from them. I used to think if I kept the house clean and was as good as I could be and did everything right that my Mom would not drink. You can guess how well that worked.Celiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681663732376253772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-27869918829231332042009-04-02T08:54:00.000-07:002009-04-02T08:54:00.000-07:00i'm glad to read that you know things that happene...i'm glad to read that you know things that happened aren't your fault and that you got some justification for keeping your kids away so you don't ever feel guilty for that.<BR/><BR/>and, yes, you can be my infertility statue and/or dance around me! any day!Tiffaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17800505119230097409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-41563486385019693622009-04-01T21:20:00.000-07:002009-04-01T21:20:00.000-07:00I've had several very good friends who were molest...I've had several very good friends who were molested when they were young - I know how it can mess with your head. It's understandable that a young person wouldn't know how to react to something like that and I can see why you might feel like you were the only one or the cause. Having said that, I'm SO glad you know now that it wasn't either of those things - he was just a jerk. A total SOB. I don't blame you ONE BIT for wanting to protect your children. I would do EXACTLY the same thing to keep my daughter safe. Here's hoping just a little more peace finds you each and every day :)Coffeegrljapanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04848101070810301786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-54852691866927633112009-04-01T19:47:00.000-07:002009-04-01T19:47:00.000-07:00I am so glad that you were able to get this cleare...I am so glad that you were able to get this cleared up (the completely and totally not your fault part) and now don't have to stress over being polite while protecting your children. I am hear if you need to talk.Third times a charmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10411724104092998803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-45733544088885510712009-04-01T19:10:00.000-07:002009-04-01T19:10:00.000-07:00YOU.GO.GIRL! So glad you've found some peace of m...YOU.GO.GIRL! So glad you've found some peace of mind. :)Alanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07890079014330244123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-47092947919233272812009-04-01T14:25:00.000-07:002009-04-01T14:25:00.000-07:00i am so glad you have some peace now! it must feel...i am so glad you have some peace now! it must feel wonderful having a sense of freedom! yay hugs hugs hugs and i think its great that you don't have to feel like you are making excuses with your family anymore, that you can just say no and not worry about it. you are doing a great job with your kids, and its great you are able to protect them from all of this.aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026378388609134143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-37721758150281948952009-04-01T14:18:00.000-07:002009-04-01T14:18:00.000-07:00*hugs*You are a strong brave woman and I'm proud t...*hugs*<BR/><BR/>You are a strong brave woman and I'm proud to know you.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-56261068991936296042009-04-01T13:48:00.000-07:002009-04-01T13:48:00.000-07:00Good for you. I'm so sorry you had to go through s...Good for you. I'm so sorry you had to go through such hell. That's awful. I am glad, though, that you were finally able to talk to your dad about it and realize it is NOT your fault in anyway.<BR/><BR/>Protecting our children should always be at the top of the priority list. {{Big Hugs}}<BR/><BR/>MelissaMama Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11731917736362150072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-80537366549536773692009-04-01T13:46:00.000-07:002009-04-01T13:46:00.000-07:00I don't know the whole story but I can kinda guess...I don't know the whole story but I can kinda guess from this post. I'm so sorry for all the pain that SOB brought to your life. Send him over to this side of the Atlantic and I'll take care of him for you...the Portuguese way!Raggedy Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15627860038151160997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-38561613884762372352009-04-01T13:25:00.000-07:002009-04-01T13:25:00.000-07:00You are awesome! Way to go to finally feel free of...You are awesome! Way to go to finally feel free of all that madness and making sure he will not be around your children. It is your job to protect them as best you can, and you're doing an excellent job.nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16421475839793013391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-66889541165465956472009-04-01T12:26:00.000-07:002009-04-01T12:26:00.000-07:00what a wonderful feeling to be free again! i am so...what a wonderful feeling to be free again! i am so glad you are able to put the negative energy away and focus on using the past to protect yourself and your family in the future!Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16811784941581874209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-52679656312725920752009-04-01T11:41:00.000-07:002009-04-01T11:41:00.000-07:00Great job! This was a wonderful post to read! It...Great job! This was a wonderful post to read! It made me really happy, and honestly between our cancelled IUI and my knee injury, I needed to read something that made me happy.<BR/><BR/>I have a real problem with feeling guilty about things even when I know it's the right thing, so I think it's great that you've overcome that. What a wonderful gift.sunflowerchildehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15209334933886664383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-82388770838783221972009-04-01T10:15:00.000-07:002009-04-01T10:15:00.000-07:00I can feel the lightness in this post. I'm glad yo...I can feel the lightness in this post. I'm glad you trusted us all to be so open. YAY for freedom!Dorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255190971670471758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-69801528082085171342009-04-01T10:10:00.000-07:002009-04-01T10:10:00.000-07:00I am so totally proud of you (even if I have not k...I am so totally proud of you (even if I have not known you that long)<BR/><BR/>Taking care of yourself and your children is and always will be priority #1. <BR/><BR/>I am sorry you had that info about Uncle Douche Bag dumped on you like that however it sounds like you came out the other side of it in a blaze of glory!<BR/><BR/>Good for you for talking about this...NO - it's not an easy OR comfortable thing but with every word you put out there..it helps others to know THEY are not alone!<BR/><BR/>You totally ROCK!!!<BR/>HUGSJB - A.K.A. Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06552394214853924040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-8116563297829458012009-04-01T10:04:00.000-07:002009-04-01T10:04:00.000-07:00I agree with you that it stinks that this happened...I agree with you that it stinks that this happened to other people, but I'm glad you've found release in the truth. And the freedom from guilt over that side of the family. Doing what's best for your family should never make you feel guilty!seussgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04000177197075148901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-19419119445828789402009-04-01T09:34:00.000-07:002009-04-01T09:34:00.000-07:00I am so glad you got this release. You have been ...I am so glad you got this release. You have been through so much because of "Uncle Douche Bag" (thanks Heather) and I am so happy you finally are free of it.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-29754222794853638042009-04-01T09:09:00.000-07:002009-04-01T09:09:00.000-07:00I had a feeling Uncle Douche Bag had a history of ...I had a feeling Uncle Douche Bag had a history of this kind of thing. I'm so glad you have something solid to work with now and have stopped doubting yourself. If you wanna take a road trip I will come with you to rip him a new one with a Tabasco covered sharp stick right up the ass.<BR/><BR/>We love you and when you hurt we hurt. When you rejoice we dance the Cabbage Patch!GeekByMarriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05852460217362049044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-20394155679684988422009-04-01T09:07:00.000-07:002009-04-01T09:07:00.000-07:00Good for you for confronting your dad! I'm glad yo...Good for you for confronting your dad! I'm glad you feel like the veil of secrecy has been lifted! You're SO right to protect your children.MoxieMamaKChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08476898618715285808noreply@blogger.com