tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post5853909070728141324..comments2023-10-16T06:32:01.349-07:00Comments on Life induces thoughts,: Some Just Won't Ever Get It, Will They?Beautiful Messhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02425541240465474148noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-39604509516953593452009-08-17T21:22:20.395-07:002009-08-17T21:22:20.395-07:00My MIL would cut out job postings and class schedu...My MIL would cut out job postings and class schedules for me. AND my husband's grandma cuts out diet plans, suggestions and low fat recipes for me. I'm well loved. Pffft! I keep reminding myself I will be a MIL one day too, I'm taking notes and trying to be kind since I hope my DIL will be kind to me. Some days I'm successful and some days not so much.Flying Monkeyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10201706440467984875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-81975216654240011032009-08-13T09:23:10.214-07:002009-08-13T09:23:10.214-07:00You've been awarded a 'One Lovely Blog Awa...You've been awarded a 'One Lovely Blog Award', details on my blog!Busted Tubehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12111014136194033674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-23232488737994279302009-08-13T02:51:28.047-07:002009-08-13T02:51:28.047-07:00((((HUGS)))
I've given you an award - come by...((((HUGS)))<br /><br />I've given you an award - come by my blog and take a look!daega99https://www.blogger.com/profile/05925235183784718592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-24468307126414360362009-08-12T13:10:12.295-07:002009-08-12T13:10:12.295-07:00grrr! I am frustrated for you! they are YOUR kids,...grrr! I am frustrated for you! they are YOUR kids, you get to decide how to raise them! She should not be disrespecting you that way, drives me crazy!!!aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026378388609134143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-15996700489035704022009-08-11T12:58:01.359-07:002009-08-11T12:58:01.359-07:00Sorry you have a little bit of busybody going on w...Sorry you have a little bit of busybody going on with MIL. In our family, I handle my Mom, and he handles his. LOL. In reality, I end up handling them both.JennyMachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14594526663480442855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-2143905332018650992009-08-11T10:44:19.680-07:002009-08-11T10:44:19.680-07:00I agree that your attitude as a parent is great! ...I agree that your attitude as a parent is great! Very responsible... but as you said, some never will get it. And those are the most frustrating.Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08249032117071588918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-67384387317064412752009-08-11T08:01:23.922-07:002009-08-11T08:01:23.922-07:00uggghhh, naggy MIL's. i've got one too. i&...uggghhh, naggy MIL's. i've got one too. i'm sure she'll be a treat when the baby is born. let her tell me how to do something just one time......it won't be pretty.Tiffaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17800505119230097409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-35987427398874385132009-08-11T04:12:24.798-07:002009-08-11T04:12:24.798-07:00How frustrating it must be to have someone interfe...How frustrating it must be to have someone interfere with your very important and well thought out decisions. All you can do is ignore. You know what's best for you. Congrats on the exam.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-15274663649925110842009-08-10T18:27:13.935-07:002009-08-10T18:27:13.935-07:00No,some people won't ever get it, don't wo...No,some people won't ever get it, don't worry about your MIL, let hubby deal with her. She's just worried about how you'll make it.Deathstarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03925549983959400448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-72786952312989863332009-08-10T14:40:13.257-07:002009-08-10T14:40:13.257-07:00Oops! Thought I was 'caught up' on your bl...Oops! Thought I was 'caught up' on your blog...just realized I left a lengthy comment on page 2 of your posts, and had missed the whole recent page! <br /><br />To catch up...<br /><br />--CONGRATS on the approval of your grant and on your official acceptance into your nursing program---how awesome!<br /><br />--Kudos on passing your admission's test...(I suck at math too!)<br /><br />--Loved your summer vacation pictures...gotta love orange overalls.<br /><br />--Your Aunt Beck post cracked me up! You're a riot!<br /><br />I think I'm up to date now...<br /><br />--Sorry your MIL doesn't agree with your parenting style and is trying to nudge DH to do things her way. FRUSTRATING! <br /><br />:)Alanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07890079014330244123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-44741062153954211282009-08-10T10:06:39.229-07:002009-08-10T10:06:39.229-07:00I too have an annoying MIL. She is the kind of per...I too have an annoying MIL. She is the kind of person who will NOT follow instructions. For example, she comes to watch the baby while we go to a baseball game. Well I label EVERYTHING (milk, juice after milk, dinner, snack) only to come home to find the "dinner" still in the fridge and she had opened something else to give to him. Ugh! Frustrating. But that's the grandma and I have to deal with it as hard as it is. You know how that goes!! Kudos to the husband for sticking up for you tho, wish I had someone on my side!!! You're awesome. The end!;-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-1925253309981076132009-08-09T20:13:18.087-07:002009-08-09T20:13:18.087-07:00Your MIL is like a cat peeing on a chair and marki...Your MIL is like a cat peeing on a chair and marking his territory. She thinks you guys are wrong and her son needs a job. I'd have a hard time ignoring it. I like that you don't leave your kids. It's a shame people have to.Dirty Disherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04661103995508742334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-78763437246365260192009-08-09T17:05:45.056-07:002009-08-09T17:05:45.056-07:00pppsssttt.... just stopping by for a little "...pppsssttt.... just stopping by for a little "hi". Sorry I've been absent but I swear to be better. You've been so good to me and I promise to be back! ~hug~nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479202205264710056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-50075204507647547542009-08-09T15:09:30.666-07:002009-08-09T15:09:30.666-07:00Gotta say I agree with Aunt Becky... :)
I've ...Gotta say I agree with Aunt Becky... :)<br /><br />I've said it before: one of the best things about the Big Split--no more MIL! (not that I'm advocating that for you at all...LOL)becomingwholehttp://becomingwhole.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-47411152103054117522009-08-09T12:54:27.622-07:002009-08-09T12:54:27.622-07:00I say stand your ground and just ignore when she d...I say stand your ground and just ignore when she does that. She's a mom, ya know? Some Moms think they know best. I know a few like that. Thankfully you have a husband who is absolutely a team player! Yay you!!TSM Oregonhttp://www.tracymort.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-85640557142873062962009-08-09T12:43:28.833-07:002009-08-09T12:43:28.833-07:00I wish Dave would stand up to his mother.I wish Dave would stand up to his mother.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-17983838282283028592009-08-09T11:02:08.532-07:002009-08-09T11:02:08.532-07:00how frustrating! i have a similar (but actually o...how frustrating! i have a similar (but actually opposite) problem with my MIL- she always talks about me not working anymore when she knows that I am career oriented.SShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02853957801933638507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-16374004301967602372009-08-09T07:05:11.295-07:002009-08-09T07:05:11.295-07:00As hard as it is, try not to let her bother you.
...As hard as it is, try not to let her bother you. <br /><br />She doesn't understand where you're coming from and she probably never will. <br /><br />You guy's have to do what's right and what works for you and if this works, then so be it. <br /><br />MIL's are the greatest, aren't they?! **insert eye roll**We have Angel Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14492464889416475299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-6387393407603914102009-08-08T21:48:36.982-07:002009-08-08T21:48:36.982-07:00Grrrrrrr....that kind of disregard and interferenc...Grrrrrrr....that kind of disregard and interference would drive me bat shit crazy.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-66488538363197649672009-08-08T20:50:49.114-07:002009-08-08T20:50:49.114-07:00You got hit by a car ?!?!? Holy Crap lady!! You g...You got hit by a car ?!?!? Holy Crap lady!! You got lots going on!! Glad to see my MIL isnt the only one "all up in our bid-ness" =)Amaprincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00012031184542760057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-5406514817197411782009-08-08T20:27:07.779-07:002009-08-08T20:27:07.779-07:00OMG - I got a blog shout out! I am honoured!!
B...OMG - I got a blog shout out! I am honoured!! <br /><br />But in all seriousness, I'm sorry about what your nephew has been through and am grateful that you, your husband, and parents stepped in when your sister could/would not.<br /><br />It sounds to me like you have two children who are very much loved. You do what's best for your family - I agree with others - stick your ground!!Fertility Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16909012164684855077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-34250246934165382932009-08-08T12:17:11.122-07:002009-08-08T12:17:11.122-07:00I am sorry your MIL is being naggy, no you are not...I am sorry your MIL is being naggy, no you are not over protected,your a mom and thats how we roll...<br /><br />**hugs**<br /><br />love yaKristalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18102891679368303145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-31194963063690119792009-08-08T10:00:16.743-07:002009-08-08T10:00:16.743-07:00Some people think that they way THEY see the world...Some people think that they way THEY see the world is capital-t Truth. But each person -- each family -- has different needs and priorities.<br /><br />The world would be such a better place if we could respect each other's decisions!<br /><br />Good for you for sticking your ground. It's great that DH doesn't hesitate to speak up to her, on behalf of the both of you.Sunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10964875388384777306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-57540380960274059232009-08-08T07:50:22.458-07:002009-08-08T07:50:22.458-07:00That should say "how different the content of...That should say "how different the content of this post IS."Lisahttp://www.infertileground.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8181051446376235840.post-55259389397488997202009-08-08T07:49:24.051-07:002009-08-08T07:49:24.051-07:00I'm laughing right now at how different the co...I'm laughing right now at how different the content of this post from my most recent one . . . and yet it's the same problem. It's one thing to offer "help" when someone needs it or you know she's open to it. Quite another when all you have is your own agenda that fails to take into account the other person's real situation.<br /><br />Thank you for all your support. I don't get out and about around tons of blogs anymore, and you've been so sweet to follow along on mine.Lisahttp://www.infertileground.comnoreply@blogger.com