Jul 11, 2010

An Open Letter to My Haters

Musings of A Beautiful Mess
Dear Haters,
I am perfectly aware you hate me, BELIEVE me I am. Just because I smile at you and engage you in conversation, does not mean you can go to my friends and talk shit about me because you think I don't know. I do this for a few reasons 1) it's going to piss you off THAT much more. 2) I really don't care that you hate me and 3) I have enough friends that don't talk shit about me, that I don't need you. You see, my parents raised me to be polite even when there's nothing more I'd like to do then rip your eyes out and tell you exactly how I feel. But I don't do this because it won't do me any good, I know there is NOTHING I can do to make you change your mind about me. You can continue to hate me for whatever reason you hate me, but the minute you start saying something about me being a bad mom, all bets are off. Y'all have said it in the past and I've ignored it because really? I'm the bad mom because I go out a few times a month and leave my children WITH THEIR FATHER?! The man who has fathered BOTH my children and I'm STILL married to? I know it's a new concept for you, being married to a man for 17 years and all, but it's true. And all your shit talking isn't going to change that. You're even welcome to call my husband and tell him I flirt with other men if you'd like. Sadly for you, he won't be pissed off because he already knows.I'm just letting you all know so there is no misunderstanding when I go off on you the next time you decide to question my mothering abilities.

Oh and that rumor you all keep talking about? I will neither deny it nor will I confirm it. Why? Because it cracks me up that you think I slept with him. You can whisper behind my back ALL you want and glare at me when I walk into a room, it isn't going to stop me from having a good time. You are even welcome to talk tell everyone I talk to that I'm a thief and all I do is try to scam men for free drinks. They already know! Men know what goes on at bars, they aren't stupid and they don't need you protecting them. Also? I'm a fun person and whomever I talk to will realize you're an ugly jealous person fairly quickly.

Thank you for making my life interesting though. It's never a dull moment when y'all are around.
Sincerely,
Beautiful Mess

21 friends have commented:

CanadianMama on July 11, 2010 at 7:24 PM said...

people hate you? I don't really believe that!!

Lavender Luz on July 11, 2010 at 8:12 PM said...

I hope my affection for you counters the clueless people you've written to.

:-)

Mrs Bee on July 11, 2010 at 9:46 PM said...

Do you want me to stab someone??

I love you!!
xx

Miss Ruby on July 12, 2010 at 3:46 AM said...

I'm with CanadianMama....I'm still in disbelief that ANYONE could hate YOU - you're awesome chickadee, you rock the universe...if SOME people don't realise that, fuck em, they're not worth it and it's THEIR loss.

I'm with Sass....I'll hold em while she stabs em....(I'm not as tough as her LOL).

Love ya guts hunny....

xxxxxx

WiseGuy on July 12, 2010 at 6:34 AM said...

Well, I am not a hater!

And Boo at the haters.

The name of the game is perception...people really don't know what they are doing sometimes!

Mama Melissa on July 12, 2010 at 6:53 AM said...

will you flirt with me? 'cause i seriously need some good flirting right now!!! *Snort*

what is it with people? wait... people are stupid. they have hate in their hearts, we can change that.

and we love you!!!! :) i think you're amazing (even if we're just bloggy friends). go have your fun (have some for me, too, ok?!)

big hugs,
Melissa

Mama Melissa on July 12, 2010 at 6:54 AM said...

*we "can't" change that... oops.

Dora on July 12, 2010 at 11:38 AM said...

Are these hater jerks like in high school? Oh Em Gee, get a life, losers! For sure they're idiots.

raisingmiles on July 12, 2010 at 12:33 PM said...

OH LAWDY! Leave that garbage alone!

Mrs. Gamgee on July 12, 2010 at 1:13 PM said...

Oy! As a very good friend used to say, do you want me to punch 'em in the neck for ya? (not that I advocate violence normally, but there are times)

Flying Monkeys on July 12, 2010 at 2:19 PM said...

Oooo, you have haters...that's awesome! ; ) It's not about you, it's about them. Let it roll and keep on keeping on!

Dolli-Mama on July 12, 2010 at 2:49 PM said...

I agree with everyone else. Also, I can't wait to flirt with someone or get a free drink! It's been awhile... I've been housing babies.
:)

Danielle on July 13, 2010 at 11:29 AM said...

Reason #1234502938098345 Why I love you. You have haters!;-) Let them hate. It's pure jealousy!!!!

MAK-now on July 13, 2010 at 3:46 PM said...

If you ain't got haters, you ain't doin it right!!!!

Love u D!!!!!!!!!!!!

cysteract on July 14, 2010 at 4:15 PM said...

HAAA! you tell them! stoopid haters clearly thier own life aint interesting enough for them they gotta stick thier nose in other poeples.

You rock Beautiful! I'd go out for flirting and cocktails with you anytime :D

xX

Mel on July 14, 2010 at 11:20 PM said...

Ok...I'm coming of of at least ONE YEAR hibernation to say that it's not POSSIBLE that anyone hates you! You are the bestest, most awesome-est poster and commenter ever! :)

I know I suck at getting back to you, but for all your comments...thank you a kajillion! *hugs*

Can't wait to hear from you again, Beautiful girl!

sara on July 15, 2010 at 12:54 PM said...

I'm available to do some professional butt kicking for you if you want :-)

PFM on July 17, 2010 at 8:10 PM said...

You're awesome. These must be some really idiotic people.

Kristin on July 17, 2010 at 8:26 PM said...

I totally LURVE you and those HATERS can go suck big hairy donkey dicks.

Gerardine Baugh on July 25, 2010 at 10:45 AM said...

I don’t hate you. Try and ignore the jealous ones...
I just read Kristin's comment and I couldn't stop laughing.
Gerardine, love ya!

Jamie on August 2, 2010 at 7:14 PM said...

Ugh . . . jealousy is all that stems from. JEALOUSY!! A very wise Dr. Phil said one time that getting upset about the things people say about you says more about you than it does about them. The more you know who you are, the less what people say or do impact you and you've got to decide that you're okay with you.
That Dr. Phil is a smart guy!!

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